10 Books Every Concerned Parent Should Read
The world is a little topsy-turvy right now especially when it comes to raising and educating our children.
The following books were carefully chosen as a guide to help you navigate some of the issues you will face as a parent living in the West.
Hold On to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Mate, M.D.
In trying to understand why children no longer revere their parents in the same way that my parent's generation revered their parents, I turned to Neufeld and Mate's book, Hold On to Your Kids.
Part of the answer lies within the pages of this book and will help you understand why peer pressure is so real, and how you can lose your children to peer pressure. It also contains some suggestions for how to protect the bond between you and your children.
While their solutions are somewhat naive, if I may be so bold as to say that, the authors delineate a very real situation that every parent should understand.
2. Recovering the Lost Tools of Learning by Dorothy Sayers
This essay is Dorothy Sayer's famous critique of modern education using her great wit and brilliant insight. It's amusing as well as informative.
To raise the standard for your child's education, you need first to understand what level of academic work he's capable of doing. There's no better way to do this than to ignore the standards of modern education, and, instead, look at what school children used to learn.
3. The Disappearance of Childhood by Neil Postman
Neil Postman was a perceptive social critic who argued that childhood was disappearing. The reason for the disappearance was the blurred lines that technology created by exposing children to the adult world too soon.
With the loss of childhood also came the loss of adulthood, which continues to present a significant problem for our society's ability to remain civil.
4. Gwynne's Latin by N. M. Gwynne - The Introduction
Mr. Gwynne is an expert on the subject of the Latin language. He tells stories of having studied Latin for 90 minutes a day, five days a week as a schoolboy.
By the time I (and later, you) went to school, they had eliminated Latin from the curriculum. To our detriment, too, because without the study of Latin, you can never fully understand or appreciate the English language.
People who learn Latin are better educated. It's a simple fact. The reason you should read his introduction to his Latin book is that he will give you an irrefutable argument for why you should have your children learn Latin. You can study it, too, as I do–it's never too late.
5. The Underground History of American Education by John Taylor Gatto
Gatto's opus work tells the story of how a sub-standard modern education came to be, and why you must understand it's origins so you can make informed decisions for your children when it comes to deciding how you want to educate them.
I prefer Gatto's original work over the newly revised work of the same title. Buy a copy of the older book, if you can. His newer version was written during his last years, and intended as a three-volume set, but, sadly, he never finished it.
6. The Platonic Tradition by Peter Kreeft
You may be wondering why I included this title? It's vital to Western civilization that we understand the ideas upon which our civilization was built so that we can protect them when they're under threat of being undermined as they are today.
We also need to pass this understanding onto our children, so they are not easily swayed by the high falutin rhetoric that robs us of our civil liberties under the guise of equality. Kreeft's book will correct the errors in understanding that brought us to where we are today.
7. Glow Kids by Nicholas Kardaras, Ph.D.
A ground-breaking book that exposes the technology industry for what it is, and the harm it's inflicting on our children during their most vulnerable years. Protect your child by reading this book and passing it on to your friends to read. We need a no-tech revolution, at least no tech in the lives of children.
8. How to Read a Book by Mortimer Adler and Charles Van Doren
The title seems like an oxymoron, but it's not. The authors acknowledge our ability to read but also our failure to read with deep understanding. We were never taught the skill of reading beyond a rudimentary level, and this is the gap How to Read a Book attempts to fill.
They will show you how to tackle a book in a way that will make it your own. Especially if you plan on homeschooling, you want to learn this skill so you can teach it to your children when they get older.
9. Dumbing Us Down by John Taylor Gatto
Dumbing Us Down was Gatto's landmark book when he first entered the world of non-schooling education. He writes an easy-to-read book about the problems with modern education and why you should consider alternatives to a "school-like" training for your child.
Whether you do or not, you should understand the system so you can help your child navigate it if you decide to put him or her into school.
10. The Leipzig Connection by Paolo Lionni
How modern psychology removed the soul from the study of psychology and then coupled that soul-less subject with the department of modern education and the subsequent impact it has had on children's education. An important read!
Some of these books are inexpensive, some are more expensive, but they are all worth reading.
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Elizabeth Y. Hanson is a Love and Leadership certified parenting coach with 17 years experience working in children’s education. She has two successfully homeschooled children in college.