We want our kids to excel and strive to do their very best in all things.
Therefore, establishing concrete goals is a part of every successful homeschooler’s plan. And whatever educational goals you set, it is vital that you create the steps for your child to reach these goals.
Is there a subject or skill you want your child to master as part of his education? Maybe it's a foreign language, knowledge of Ancient history, or a musical instrument?
There will be some subjects which will be mandatory because your child needs to learn them, such as grammar and math, but others will be dependent upon your child's level of interest, such as studying art, music or sports.
Whatever it is that your child is inclined towards, you want to be intentional in making this endeavor a priority in your child's life. We all reach plateaus in learning; but as parents, we have to help our children push through them.
“Our goals can only be reached through a vehicle of a plan, in which we must fervently believe, and upon which we must vigorously act. There is no other route to success.”
State the goal, decide what steps your child needs to take to achieve it, and then build a plan to help him reach the finish line.
Regardless of how busy you are, you ensure that your child studies this one subject or practices his skill as often as needed to reach optimal results.
Without a clear plan in place, your chances for your child reaching particular goals or mastery will be less. Our chance for success is always less when we are less intentional about it.
“A goal properly set is halfway reached.”
One could even say that, apart from the factor of luck and fate, the degree to which we succeed is proportional to our level of intention.
When you look at people who master a subject or skill, you will find they are intentional about their study. At some point during the learning process, they decide they want to become better than average, and they make a commitment to themselves to reach this goal.
These people become unstoppable.
It is perseverance and diligence that moves us beyond average and into a level of mastery.
Juxtapose this to the person who says they want to be great at something, but never make a firm intention to become great. They become like a ship at sea with no rudder, and they never move beyond the mediocre.
“In all things that you do, consider the end.”
Your child is capable of reaching great heights. Don't let him settle for mediocrity. Let him reach a level of proficiency in at least one skill; this will raise his standard for everything he attempts to learn or be in life.
He will learn to aim high because he knows how high he can aim.
☞ Disclaimer: This is not a politically-correct blog.
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Elizabeth Y. Hanson is a homeschooling thought-leader and the founder of Smart Homeschooler.
As an Educator, Homeschool Emerita, Writer, and Love and Leadership Certified Parenting Coach, Elizabeth has 21+ years of experience working in education.
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