5 Reasons Why Leisure Time Matters More than Extra-Curricular Activities
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We over schedule our children and fail to recognize the inherent harm in making extra-curricular activities a priority in our family's life.
Let's look at the consequences of hyper-scheduling our kids.
Stress levels increase for everyone
No one has time to discover the simple pleasures of life
Family time is compromised
Too Many Missed Family Meals
Exhaustion
Yet, our minds and our bodies crave and need downtime to relax and experience life at a slower pace. Our children's needs aren't any different.
Why Leisure Time Matters More
Hobbies
Children need leisure time to learn how to entertain themselves with hobbies like needlepoint, knitting, collecting stamps, or building model airplanes. Maybe they want to explore the outdoors or build something from scratch. Hobbies give us something to look forward to no matter how young or how old we are. During rough patches in life, our hobbies will keep us moving forward.
Social Skills
Leisure time also allows children to go outdoors and play with the neighborhood kids or visit a friend, both of which are crucial to developing good social skills.
“Time is a game played beautifully by children.”
Read a Book
And sometimes, like us, a child just wants to lie down and read a book. There are a lot of reasons why children don't read today, but one of them may be that they don’t have enough leisure time to develop the habit of reading.
Family Time
When each child has multiple extra-curricular activities, there's little time for shared activities as a family.
Your family time begins to revolve around extra-curricular activities; in other words, family life becomes less o a priority than extra-curricular activities.
Exhaustion
Some children need more downtime than others. The over-scheduling of their day can result in fatigue and a loss of enthusiasm. The underlying stress of having too much to do can make them irritable and unpleasant to be around.
We all know what it feels like to be exhausted!
Too Many Missed Family Meals
Often the extra-curricular activities take place in the evenings leaving no one home to cook or serve a family meal. Consequently, the family eats with dad while you rush Tommy to soccer practice.
We know the importance of family meals for children. The more family meals you share, the fewer problems your kids will have. Children need to feel emotionally connected to their family, and meal times is one of the critical ways in which they can connect.
According to research, having family meals at least 4 times a week lowers the risk of obesity, substance abuse, eating disorders, and an increased chance of graduating from high school.
Putting It into Perspective
What's more important at the end of the day?
When your children are grown will it be more important that your kids were in a lot of activities or that your family has a strong bond which keeps you together whether your kids live near you or not.
Instead of over-scheduling your children, in addition to their homeschooling subjects, which would include sports, let them take one class in something they enjoy doing. But don’t let their classes interfere with meal times or weekend activities.
And make sure your children have enough leisure time to figure out where their interests lie and what they're good at.
“If you are losing your leisure, look out! — It may be you are losing your soul.”
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